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Getting Your Ex Back

Are you experiencing relationship problems? Have you had a big bust-up with your lover and you’re desperate to find ways of getting your ex back that really work?…I know what you’re thinking, here comes a plug for some program that’s guaranteed to save my relationship without me having to do anything…right?…Wrong!

What I actually want to share with you is a kind of mini-review or sampling of a program called “The Magic of Making Up”.

A number of readers of my blog who grabbed hold of this ‘get your ex back‘ method, initially contacted me, expressing serious doubts about whether some of the tactics described in the book/audio would work.

What I’d like to do, is to briefly discuss the area of concern, namely, where ‘The Magic of Making Up’ talks about using counter-intuitive techniques and Viagra Wirkung to repair your relationship with your ex and eventually get them back.

Now, of course, trying to rebuild a relationship can be a very tricky and difficult thing to achieve. You’re frightened that you’ll make mistakes that will possibly ruin any prospect of success, and you’ll end up losing your ex-lover forever.

In the book, it talks about implementing several counter-intuitive approaches to getting your ex back, and these are the aspects that caused some concern. I mean, more often than not, when you’re advised to do something that’s contrary to what you think you should do, it can certainly make you feel a little bit uneasy.

Your first reaction is to think this is the wrong way to go about reconciling with your ex, but as the author points out, these methods have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. That’s right, even though you’re not the one who decided to break up! This, more than likely, will be very difficult. It’s only natural that doing the exact opposite of what you really want to do will be a hard pill to swallow.

It helps you to understand why you need to agree with your relationship breaking up. Ultimately, it shows your ex-boy or girlfriend that you recognize there’s a problem with the relationship and, more or less states that you’re not going to be pestering them about getting back together.

Ironically, this technique also has the advantage of assisting you in regaining respect from your partner. Setting your mind to accept the breakup, even though deep down you want your ex back, can stop you from appearing needy or clingy, which can only make your ex-partner more upset with you than they probably are at the moment.

The second unconventional technique you need to use is to stop all communication with your ex. Yes, that means no phoning, texting, notes, letters, and definitely no showing up on his or her doorstep unannounced. Virtually, you’re going to be non-existent for a period of time!

This relationship reconciliation tactic fits in very well with the previous one. Once again, it helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex that you are serious. Not only this, but it also gives your ex time to miss you and, perhaps, get over the reasons for the split.

Another reason for not communicating at all with your ex is that it gives you the opportunity to get your head together, enabling you to think more clearly. You can re-examine the cause, or causes of the breakup and plan your next moves in your attempt to mend your relationship.

Now, I don’t think I’ve let ‘the cat out of the bag’, so to speak, by briefly going over these two aspects of what’s covered in ‘The Magic of Making Up’. Obviously, there are many more critical steps involved in the program that can’t be left out. And, the following video highlights the points we’ve been discussing. Hopefully, it will help you understand further the thinking behind these counter-intuitive techniques. Watch out for what “Tdub” calls “premature reconciliation”!

Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. Most times we should follow the ‘counterintuitive path’, and when we feel like calling our ex is when we should stay cool. When we feel like pouring our hearts out and throwing ourselves at the feet of our ex, is when we should put a lid on it. Sounds wrong, doesn’t it?

But, if you’ve broken up with your lover, and whatever you’re using as a ‘getting your ex back‘ technique is just not cutting it, maybe it’s time to try the unconventional, counterintuitive methods to achieve relationship reconciliation. Why be left wondering…what if?

Ways Hollywood Affects Views on Dating and Relationships for Women

Women, especially teens and young adults, are often influenced by things they see in Hollywood. This includes everything from beauty and fashion to relationships and sex. While it is good to take notice of the world around you, it is hardly ideal to look at celebrities for advice on dating or marriage. There are some morality issues that should be addressed before taking anything away from celebrity couples. These are the problems with Hollywood stars broadcasting their romances, and what can be inferred from them.

They glamorize abuse

This is the main cause that leads the youth brigade astray, as they cannot distinguish between real and reel and constantly look up to their film idols for emulation in the hopes of becoming like them someday. Now I don’t have anything against films as long as they come up with a brilliant social message coated with songs and entertainment props but just that sex and sleaze are the norm of Hollywood these days that are corrupting young minds and they look up to useless apps like okcupid to try their luck with girls.

Abuse in any form is never okay, and definitely shouldn’t be tolerated. The women affected by this often make excuses for the men in their lives and continue to stay with them. It was recently brought to light that Rihanna is dating Chris Brown once again. This is the same man who was ordered to stay away from her after he did some damage to her face in 2009. Clearly she is sending the wrong message to her female fans, and many of them could be in similar situations. Abuse does not equal love, and if it happens once, it will most likely keep happening. You deserve better, and so does Rihanna.

They disrespect their partner with infidelity

Infidelity is high among Hollywood couples, and many of them air their dirty laundry in the media. Seemingly happy actors are brought to their knees when they find out the ones they love have strayed. A perfect example of this is the situation between Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwartzenegger. His affair with their maid produced a love child that was hidden from Maria for many years. This all came to light in 2011, and played out full circle in the media. I have been on the receiving end of an affair, and it is no fun. I can’t imagine how it must feel to have your life on display and dealing with something like this as the world is hounding you. Cheating shows a lack of respect and is a complete slap in the face to those of us who are faithful.

Changing partners like underwear

There aren’t very many lasting relationships in Hollywood. One week someone is dating this person, and then they next they are with another guy. This has become the acceptable way of life, and it sends out a terrible message to young women. Taylor Swift is a perfect example. While she is generally pretty wholesome, she has a slew of ex-boyfriends. These are not long courtships, and her rebound relationships are never any better. It is definitely okay to casually date, but serious things should be addressed with someone that will stick around longer than two weeks.

We live in a world where sex and relationships are all talked about and viewed differently. Many women look to Hollywood for insights, and the ones they are given aren’t good. Celebrities are hardly role models for love and life, and remembering that can save you a lot of disappointment and heartache in the future.

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